During the OW to my phone confrontation/discussion, she did offer me personally valuable information. My H insisted the EA had just been going on for 6 months and therefore the OW had pursued him. She explained my H had initiated connection with her over an ago year. Once I confronted my H using this information he finally admitted the OW ended up being telling the reality. Learning these details challenge our healing up process greatly as well as I donвЂ™t trust my H one bit though itвЂ™s been 6 months since D Day. If heвЂ™d said the whole truth at the beginning there is an improved possibility of recovery, but his constant lies have actually damaged my trust and faith in him and our wedding.