This can be a term useful for some body that moves far too fast in relationships.

This can be a term useful for some body that moves far too fast in relationships.

U-Haulling: Dating ought to be the get-to-know-you phase – maybe maybe maybe not the, we-have-stuff-in-common-so-I’m-just-gonna-move-in period. In the event that you meet some body plus they are pushing very difficult to become a couple out of the gate – you need certainly to pump the breaks. This might be an indication that is clear this individual has parasitic characteristics – meaning they can’t look after by themselves, they’re users and they’ve exhausted their last partner and they’re from the look-out for another person to feed away from. See my weblog entitled, Understanding the Parasitic Narcissist, to find out more. That they can take care of themselves, they’ve got their shit together, they’re responsible financially, they’re dependable, you’ve spent a lot of weekends together and have done a lot of test runs, you both are on the same page, you’re compatible and it enhances both your lives before you ever, even consider, moving in with someone, a whole heap of time needs to have passed and in this time, you’ve witnessed. Read more